I mean the cowardly guys, not the gays. I think the openly gay men are very brave. They are the opposite of the Sissy Boys and I admire them.
Mothers make them Sissy Boys
The Sissy Boys are made not born. The lankan mothers love their precious boys too much. They are pampered and protected. These boys carry forward the family name so they are treated real special. The girls on the other hand are taught to be independent and tough. The girls have to survive in a man's world, take care of kids and most importantly make the sissy boy she marries happy.
Sissy Boys at school
It's only studies. Going outside to play is not safe. From the age of five the boy has to prepare for the grade 5 scholarship exam to go to a leading school. Then it's studying to get 9 A's at O/L's. The only reason the boy has to excel in this exam is to preserve the mothers dignity. What will people say? The kid is forced to memorise tons of useless information to answer papers full of trick questions. Then the all important A/L's to get into the university.
Tuition all the Way
It all depends on the tuition. So the best mothers organise the best classes and best teachers. There is no time for leisure. It's school, tuition and study. The quality of life - null. The parents don't realise it's torture. Why the good school ? It's all ego.
This childhood creates a social misfit with zero emotional intelligence. The ragging is an opportunity for these sissy boys to bully somebody and feel superior.
Sissy Boys at Work
When the great sissy boy goes to work it's an anticlimax. Sissy does not have initiative and can't work in a team.
Sissy in Society
He is the chauvinistic, nationalist. Talks bigs, has the solution to everything but can/will do nothing. He just thinks he is superior. Sissy did not go anywhere near the war but takes all the credit for the victory. The poor boys who did not have the opportunities to go to good schools and get the best in tuition fought the war for them and some sacrificed their lives. Sissy does not do anything help these poor people. Why bother?
Shut up You Sissy Boy
All the big talk does not change the fact that you are a big Sissy. We know it and you know that we know it.
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ReplyDeleteAs for freedom GIRLS are the ones who are locked in the house. Boys have a lot more freedom in comparison.
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ReplyDeleteIn Sri Lanka girls are taught to independent and tough while boys are protected? what kind of SL does the author talk about? it is the complete extreme opposite.
SL is very conservative and is not up to standards when it comes to gender equality. Women here don't stand up for their rights and is content with what Men define for them. I am with women if they want equality. But the way women think needs to be changed for that. And for that how mothers(and fathers) bring up girls vs boys needs to changed.
Believe girls are taught be independent if it makes a sexist to believe otherwise but things won't change until people are ready to see these things.
@ Liberal Lanka..
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I had no idea this was happening in Sri lanka. My heart goes out to the great women of Sri Lanka. I would be HONORED to be counted as worthy of having such a woman as my equal partner.
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